ameetx is for meeting people in person and online. These rules keep it welcoming for everyone, whatever their nationality, ethnicity, religion, gender, age, ability or political view.
1. Everyone is welcome
Plans are open to everyone they are listed for. A host can say who a plan is aimed at, like beginners, adults coming with their own kids, or people practicing Spanish. No one is turned away for who they are.
2. Treat people with respect
No insults, slurs, threats, harassment or dehumanizing language about anyone or any group. Disagree with ideas, not with people.
3. Keep each plan about the plan
Faith plans and causes have their own categories. Do not recruit, campaign, or argue about politics or religion in a plan that is about something else. Causes and movements stay hidden until a member turns them on in Me. Campaign events for candidates, parties or ballot measures are not listed.
4. No divisive attacks
Posts that attack a nationality, religion, gender, political party or any other group are removed. Repeated or public attacks lead to a suspension, and a suspended member cannot see or join plans.
5. Meet safely
First meetings happen in the group. Wait to share your number or address until you have met. Private addresses go only to confirmed people, 48 hours before the plan. Never share another person's private information.
6. Show up, or back out early
Back out at least 24 hours before so someone else can take your spot. Your show-up record counts. How the record works.
7. Kids
Accounts are for adults 18 and older. Plans where adults bring their own kids open later, once both adult hosts can be ID checked. Never post about anyone else's child, and never post photos of children.
8. Honest plans and honest prices
No fake plans, spam or scams. Businesses honor the group price they list for every group that confirms.
9. Alcohol, tobacco, cannabis and Not for kids
21 and over plans are for people 21 and older, and the venue checks ID.
The Not for kids section holds bar meetups, smoke sessions, strong language plans and other plans for grown-ups. Only signed-in members see it, plans for 21 and over show only to members 21 or older, and any member can hide the section in Me. Plans in it are never family plans, and nobody brings kids.
Smoke sessions happen only at a private place or at a licensed consumption lounge. California law does not permit anyone to "smoke or ingest cannabis or cannabis products in a public place" except as a local license allows (Health and Safety Code 11362.3(a)(1), read November 8, 2026). Nothing is bought, sold or traded through ameetx: bring your own. Nobody drives impaired.
What happens when a rule is broken
A reminder, then removal of the content with a written reason, then a 7 day pause, then a 30 day suspension, then removal from ameetx. Threats, violence, sexual content involving a minor, sharing someone's private information, and attacks on a group can be removed right away and can mean immediate removal. Content that appears to exploit a child is reported to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.
Appeals
Every decision comes with a written reason. You can appeal within 14 days, and a person reviews it.
Report a problem
Use Report a problem on any plan. If someone is in danger right now, call 911.